How to Fast Biblically as a Busy Christian Woman (Without Burning Out!)
- Leanne | My Godly Flourish
- 1 day ago
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Have you ever felt God nudging your heart toward fasting, and then immediately felt unsure where to begin?
As busy Christian women, our days are already full. Work deadlines. School runs. Ministry commitments. Meals to cook. Messages to reply to. The idea of adding fasting into your life can feel overwhelming before you even start.
But here’s the beautiful truth:
Fasting is not about adding pressure to your life.
It’s about creating space for God within it.
If your heart longs for deeper intimacy with Him, you are already ready to begin.
What Is Biblical Fasting (And What It’s Not)
Biblical fasting is intentionally abstaining from food for a spiritual purpose.
It is choosing, for a set period of time, to say no to physical nourishment in order to seek spiritual nourishment more intentionally.
When Jesus fasted in the wilderness, Scripture says:
“After he had fasted forty days and forty nights, he was hungry.” – Matthew 4:2
And in that hunger, He declared:
“Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that comes from the mouth of God.” – Matthew 4:4
Fasting reminds us that while food sustains the body, God sustains the soul.
It is not:
A diet
A punishment
A way to manipulate God
A spiritual competition
It is:
An act of humility
A declaration of dependence
A posture of surrender
An invitation for closeness
Isaiah 58 shows us that true fasting is about heart transformation, not outward performance. That means you don’t have to fast perfectly, you simply have to fast sincerely.
Mistakes Christian Women Make When Fasting
Let’s be honest, most teachings on fasting sound like they require a silent retreat and an empty calendar.
But we live in the real world. With real responsibilities that aren't just going to disappear.
One of the biggest reasons Christian women struggle with fasting is because they try to copy someone else’s fast instead of discerning what fits their current season.
Some common issues that can make fasting so hard to to or start:
1. Starting without a clear purpose.
Skipping a meal without a prayer focus often leads to frustration.
2. Removing food but not adding prayer.
If you fast from lunch but scroll your phone instead, the spiritual impact will feel minimal.
3. Going too extreme too quickly.
Passion is wonderful, but sustainability matters more.
4. Expecting dramatic spiritual fireworks.
Growth is often quiet before it is visible.
If any of that sounds familiar, take heart. You are not failing. You are learning.
How to Fast Biblically (Without Overcomplicating It)
If you are new to fasting, simplicity is your friend. Here is a beginner-friendly, realistic approach:
1. Clarify Your “Why”
Before you fast, ask yourself:
What am I seeking from God right now?
Is there an area where I need breakthrough?
Do I need clarity, repentance, or direction?
Am I longing for deeper intimacy?
Write your focus down. Clarity strengthens commitment.
2. Choose a Sustainable Type of Fast
You do not need to begin with a multi-day water fast.
Consider starting with:
Skipping one meal and dedicating that hour to prayer.
Fasting from sunrise to sunset.
A short, 24-hour fast.
A modified fast (such as simple foods only, or a Daniel Fast).
The goal is surrender, not severity.
3. Replace Eating Time With Intentional Seeking
This is where the power lies.
During the time you would normally eat:
Read Scripture slowly.
Pray intentionally over your focus area.
Journal what God is revealing.
Sit quietly and listen.
Even 15 focused minutes can be deeply impactful.
4. Anchor Yourself in Scripture
If you’re unsure what to read, start here:
Isaiah 58 – What true fasting looks like
Psalm 42 – Spiritual hunger for God
Matthew 6:16–18 – Jesus’ teaching on fasting
James 4:8 – Drawing near to God
Read slowly. Ask: What is God showing me about my heart?
5. End Your Fast Intentionally
Breaking your fast is just as important as beginning it.
When you finish:
Pray a prayer of gratitude.
Reflect on what you learned.
Write down any insights or convictions.
Eat gently and mindfully.
This seals the spiritual work God has begun.
What Spiritual Growth Through Fasting Really Looks Like
You might be wondering, How will I know if it’s working?
Spiritual growth through fasting often looks like:
Increased awareness of distractions
A softened, more surrendered heart
Greater sensitivity to conviction
A deeper desire for Scripture
A renewed hunger for prayer
James 4:8 promises: “Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you.”
That is the heart of fasting. You make space. He fills it.
Sometimes the growth is quiet. Sometimes it feels stretching. But it is always forming something deeper within you.
When You Feel Weak or Discouraged
There may be moments during your fast when you feel hungry, tired, or irritable.
That does not mean you are doing it wrong.
It means you are human.
Let your hunger become a reminder to pray: “Lord, I need You more than this.”
Fasting is not about flawless discipline. It is about faithful pursuit.
If you stumble, refocus.
If you struggle, lean in.
If you feel weak, remember that His strength is made perfect in weakness.
Grace belongs in your fasting journey too.
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